As a child you dream of growing up and the things you are going to do. As a little girl you play with dolls, and you dream about getting married. Its the same for most girls, I would think. By the time you are 18 you already have the wedding dress picked out, the flowers, the spot, bridesmaids, etc., the only thing missing from that picture may be the groom.
Oh there are those first boyfriends, those crushes, the "I think this is the one" moments. But it's not until later that the last piece of the puzzle actually falls into place - that groom that we need to put into the picture.
For most of us the plans probably remain mostly the same, the type of cake you love, the gown may change a little (depending on the current styles), bridesmaids have changed over the years - based on the changing friendships of youth.
You have to allow the groom some decisions now, the magical day that you dreamed about is not all about "you", but the groom has to have some sort of a spot in the whole thing.
I've never married. . . . .and probably never will. . . .but it is fun to think back to all of the dreams and ideas that I had of what kind of wedding I would like.
Do you ever daydream about things that you've never done?
la la la lala la la,
Angela
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